Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Family Mission Statement and Family Roles

Today marks 10 months of marriage! We've certainly enjoyed our time together this year, and we've tried to be mindful about setting a good foundation for our marriage and family in our habits, plans, and routines. We spent time working out our family mission statement. This wasn't as easy as I expected - we each had opinions about the structure and function of this type of project, and we had to find ways to fit our ideas together into a cohesive and concise statement. So, here it is in its 2013 version (I can't promise we won't make changes to it at some point!): 

The Steele Family
Mission
We are enlarging and enriching God’s family in our generation.
Vision
We envision a large household of sons and daughters who all serve Jesus with their gifts and will continue the growth of our family.
We see a large household of faith that has benefited from our example in marriage, is growing in Christ’s likeness, and is impacting the world with the gospel.
We see a lasting influence and a material inheritance for our children through debt-free living, continuous saving, and generous giving to God’s work.
Values
Do things that matter.
Make each other a priority.
Do what you promised to do.
Influence without demanding or nagging.
Be inclusive to those who don’t have a family.
He who fears the Lord has a secure fortress, and for his children it will be a refuge. Prov. 14:26

Additionally, we came up with Family Roles that will help us relate to one another, particularly as we prepare to add children to our family. No - we are not pregnant! But we are in the beginning of the process of becoming foster parents through Lee County DHR. We anticipate completing the preliminary training, homestudy, background checks, etc by Spring 2014. Our family roles are: Leader, Helper, and Learner. Ben taught a wonderful lesson in his Timothy series this Spring about the roles of men and women in the church and that helped me solidify our family roles. For each role I wrote out the different titles they might wear (Husband, Father, Wife, Mother, Son, Daughter) as well as tasks they perform (reading, preaching, cooking, learning) and what they need to perform their roles well (rest, quiet, nurture, structure, surprises, responsibility, play). I used tagxedo.com to create these images - it's free and easy to use! I will probably be printing these out to frame and display alongside our mission statement.